In old times nations used to be a simpleton. They did not have attitude problems. But nowadays most people have disposition problems. In particular, stubbornness is a tenacious determination where they hold their views and refuse to change their viewpoints being unreasonable. Sometimes my husband also holds unnecessary stubborn attitudes with no reason or useless reasons where he sticks to his statements. That standpoint of his, I do not relish and do not tolerate.

Stubbornness of my husband

Sometimes he shows his stiff attitude that describes him as obdurate identity. He stumped on his determinations, without any cause. Which he never gives up on. What does he say, listen to him. He is obstinate as well as rigid. When anyone determines his/her perspective he does not try to listen even and does not focus. Sometimes people notice what he is dissenting about and not giving importance to anyone’s outlook but it does not matter to him. He has his standpoints that he negates to change.

His anger due to stubbornness

Additionally, he disrespects others while arguing and gets furious at the same time. He unexpectedly sticks to his tenacious point of view not showing his support for other’s perspectives. That also surprises people why he dishonors and stiffs on his stubborn attitude and displays his anger. But still, he remains impolite which is what his attitude is.

His attitude without debates

When he dismisses someone without saying anything he shows his stubbornness and arrogance. He describes his life his wishes, and his decisions no one must implicate with that. Without vocalizing any statements he stumped on his outlook. And he is not answerable to anyone as he ignores to describe that. He does not accept his faults and mistakes. That is why he is obdurate.

Why does anyone have a standpoint?

Some humans think if they admit their wrongness, their value will curtail which is why, they always show their false disposition of being a stubborn person. However, some humans become obstinate when they see others falsely stiffen their depositions to give them a lesson to learn. They try to break this stubborn attitude which comes as a negative characteristic.

My husband’s other attitudes

Nations have stubborn attitudes with non-changing outlooks. My husband has the same tenacity and obduracy character and he does not heed what someone is arguing with him. But he is not stiffened and obstinate with everyone. He shows his stubbornness to those who try to ridicule or, boast in front of him, or sometimes people insult him. It is like his identity is polite with a courteous person whereas, impolite with obdurate character people which is why he sticks with his obstinacy acts. He discerns how to handle rude humans with his stubborn outlook and stiff arguments. Offensively he can handle them. But my husband is not as obstinate as people think he is a well-mannered person with everyone as he remains soft and clear.

How to treat an obdurate human?

More or less, all over the world, most humans have an obstinate standpoint. This is somehow a negative character that hardens a person, where those who do not listen to their heart, and non they feel the pain of anyone else. It is a bad quality that can be treated with politeness and love. Soft words have their impact which directly or indirectly affects anyone. Tenacious deposition could not be operated with fury. Due to the obstinacy acts, the character gets higher with bitterness or aggression. This is how, obstinacy sticks in mind that is why those people do not listen and heed their hearts as the heart is soft and always gives you softer decisions to follow, which can also make your mind softer. That is why, I always pay attention when my spouse displays his obduracy with false outlooks. I use soft phrases to make him easy as soon as his senses get better he becomes gracious and delicate. That is how we can treat stubbornness only with kindness.

My husband is stubborn with those who rudely show their identity but mostly he is calm, simple, and kind. This is the difference between him and the rude obstinate person.