When a daughter is born mother’s tension is heightened. Both kids are the responsibility of their parents to make them better and well-mannered humans, but motherhood obligations get higher with a girl child. She has to coach the girl child some self-defense, change in her body, and maturation. Mother has to give her daughters additional time and chat a lot nicer.
Motherhood with little girls
A mommy must spend extra time with little girls. Especially when she reaches 8 or 9 mama must teach her daughter self-protection. For instance, if any man touches her private parts she has to defend herself with commotion and whacking that male. Some little girls are unaware of their sensitive private parts and men mostly focus on small kids with their evil minds to harass them. That is why, learning self-protection works against harassment.
Start of teenager and motherhood
At the lifetime of 12, every female kid is at the beginning of a teenager as their body starts changing to girl. They must discern how it transforms with their body changing and the mother should prepare their daughters about the menstrual cycle, that is why she feels pain, what she will experience like cramps, her mood swings, why she feels sick, and her physical development. As girls get nervous at this age a mommy has to train them for everything she needs.
Adolescents are growing as well they want to socialize with elders and try to sound like adults but some elders dislike their acts and there again mama has to handle all attitudes. That is how motherhood plays an important role in every girl’s life. Due to the mother’s positive perspective, she always finds her mom a “superwoman”.
Motherhood At the age of liability
From 16 to 18 girls are thriving well and getting mature but still, they are not very clever. Boys always try to swindle her, when damsels want to go to parties or anywhere independently. She wishes to gather all over with buddies and nobody ceases her that is why her mother must show her interest in her activities and illustrate to her how she has to create boundaries as all positive and negative aspects she will perceive after the age of 23. On the contrary, too many restrictions also make them stubborn.
Especially she has to safeguard herself from ‘man’. A damsel has to gain self-confidence that a mommy can guide her. This is also a part of motherhood.
Sometimes the negative act of the mother
What happens when a mama shows her false attitude? A female’s moods swing before having periods and sometimes she remains distressed. For these reasons, she squeals and expresses false perspectives which are unpleasant for kids but kids are innocent they don’t comprehend it but the teenager can discern with time. The husband plays a vital role by giving rest to his wife. And a mother must try to ease up herself.
Mommy’s external relationship
Some mamas are involved in affairs with other men and try to get married to them as no one can control the love feelings of these moms. Because she listens to their hearts, not their minds, as a girl child is more liable for a mommy than a daddy. Those Moms must end those fake thirst for love relations with other men. Teenagers need all the attention of their moms in this lifetime to remove their loneliness. But when a mom thinks over only her life and tries to isolate herself from her spouse that is a very wrong judgment of a woman.
False marriage of some females
Some females face a false marriage issue as they are despondent with their matrimony. They always dispute with their partner that also evil for kids, especially teenagers’ mental health due to parental conflict. As kids are delicate but parents are sensible. They must not fight.
Normally a female needs her mom’s advice and soft words in every walk of her life. But a teenager needs her mother and motherhood badly as this lifetime is the most important age for every girl.
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