After getting married, a couple’s goal is to have a kid. It is my longing, too, but for six months, I didn’t feel signs of pregnancy myself. Before that, I researched ‘how to get pregnant’. And my jokes begin from here, which I can never easily forget.
Google my best friend
I always research health and diseases on Google, and the joke is that I believe what this search engine says. I investigate pregnancy and I come to know female ovulation days, which I misapprehend. Later, I notice when females feel fertile, most females get a little sluggish and sick that day. Again my joke with ovulation is just because I do not feel any anguish, weakness, or sickness as well as before periods which most females share. I keep myself busy as Googling describes.
After Maternity
Search engines help me a lot with my pregnancies and signs of pregnancy. After matrimony, I again follow Google. This is just because I am unaware of motherhood and every pregnancy is dissimilar from another. Moreover, every female has distinct experiences with maternity. I searched for what to eat and what not to eat because I easily had a miscarriage during the third month of my first pregnancy, and in my second pregnancy I took care of myself and the outcome was that I reached at 9th month.
Signs of Pregnancy
During my pregnancy, I always feel sleepy, don’t want to eat much, and feel nausea these are also common signs of pregnancy. But still, I remain active because most females sense drizzling during pregnancy. That makes a female a little senseless but voting is good for a pregnant female’s health and her baby too.
Delivery and labor pain
During the first child’s birth, it was more than 9 months. But I was not feeling labor pain and surprisingly I did not know much about labor pain. It was another joke that later I laughed at but was not my flaw. As I said every pregnancy is different and every female has divergent experiences with maternity. Now I come to know some females feel birth pain which is almost like period anguish. Whereas some ladies feel contractions which is something where the baby squeezes and relaxes his/her body to come out from the mother’s womb.
That was what I was feeling contractions which I comprehended after the 9th month before that I was searching on Google about labor. And for birth pangs, I noticed how frequent and hard I was feeling that was also a joke. But later I understood from the googling I was feeling contractions that were for the first kid but with the second child, I felt too much labor pain that I did not investigate on the search engines because the anguish began at the end of the 8th month but still, it took 4 to 5 weeks with severe birth pangs to deliver a baby.
Breastfeeding
Another joke about my motherhood is regarding breastfeeding. I investigate search engines as Google is my best friend. I search for, how to give newborn feedings because, with my first daughter, I cannot grasp on it. As a new parent, I find this a little hard, and then I stop breastfeeding which I regret after a few months. But with a second child, I feed her like a professional and I research just how to increase breast milk.
Miscarriages with signs of pregnancy
I search on Google and speak to gynecologists regarding pregnancy and signs of pregnancy and comprehend that most miscarriages most probably occur during 3rd month of pregnancy and the 7th and the 8th months. These months are very delicate because females have to take care of themselves. Most miscarriages happen in the 3rd month and mine too. That makes me too feeble and I again lose confidence in a new kid.
After the birth of my elder daughter, I tried for a second kid but I got a miscarriage that is why I remain depressed but I am a strong woman, and I won’t lose the race again. I attempt again and I thrive. I don’t want my elder daughter will remain alone that is why I have two kids and both of my girls are good friends with each other.